Parent Guide

Working With Your Child's School

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A parent listening to their child at home
Preschoolers building with wooden blocks in a bright playroom
A child standing apart while others play — social difficulties
Everyday moments: play, big feelings, and parent conversations
Children collaborating during play-based learning
A teenager studying at a desk with books and laptop
Children playing with colourful wooden blocks together
A parent listening to their child at home
Preschoolers building with wooden blocks in a bright playroom
A child standing apart while others play — social difficulties
Everyday moments: play, big feelings, and parent conversations
Children collaborating during play-based learning
A teenager studying at a desk with books and laptop
School Partnership6 min readReviewed: 2026-07-16
Working with schools

Schools see your child in ways home cannot. Useful school partnership starts with a shared, calm description of what you are noticing, listening to teacher observations, and agreeing small next steps you can review together. Paediatric input can support these conversations with a clearer picture of your child's profile.

Who this guide is for

Parents preparing for a meeting with teachers, learning support staff or the school counsellor, or planning to share paediatric input with the school.

Observations parents may notice

  • Home and school see quite different sides of your child.
  • A specific subject, transition or friendship is causing repeated difficulty.
  • You are unsure what the school is already doing to support your child.
  • A previous approach worked briefly and then stopped helping.

Information that may be useful to collect

  • A short written summary of your current concerns.
  • Recent report cards, teacher comments and sample work.
  • Any previous reports you would like the school to consider.
  • Two or three questions you want to leave the meeting with answers to.

When professional review may be helpful

  • You feel stuck in circular conversations with the school.
  • You would like paediatric input to inform school planning.
  • Concerns are affecting your child's learning or wellbeing.

What the clinic consultation may consider

  • What a school-facing summary of your child's profile might include.
  • Reasonable accommodations that could be discussed with the school.
  • How to review changes with the school over time.
  • How to keep your child appropriately involved in decisions about them.

Similar observations can have very different explanations. An appropriate clinical assessment considers the wider context of your child's development, learning, health, family and school life. Online information cannot provide a diagnosis.

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